Dating with intention
Understand what you need from a relationship, recognise patterns in how you choose, and make room for connections that fit you.
Dating & relationship coaching
Better relationships
start with you.
Know yourself. Choose with intention. Honest, practical conversations about dating, love, and the choices that shape your life.
20+Years studying
human behavior
human behavior
3 booksSelf-discovery,
happiness & dating
happiness & dating
Every FridayA conversation
worth having
worth having
Meet Joey
Your life.
Your choices.
Your relationship.
I’m Joey Francess, a dating and relationship coach, author, and podcast host. I’ve spent more than 20 years studying human behavior and asking why we make the choices we make, especially when it comes to love.
My work starts with helping you understand yourself: what you want, what matters to you, and the patterns that keep getting in your way. From there, you can make decisions you’re willing to live with.
The coaching, the podcast, and all three of my books come back to that same foundation. Know yourself. Choose with purpose.
Joey Francess
Work with me
You have questions.
Let’s find your answers.
One-to-one coaching built around your situation, your values, and the relationship you want to have.
Boundaries & self-respect
Get clear on what matters to you and how to communicate it, even when attention, chemistry, or fear make things complicated.
Communication & repair
Explore how to speak honestly, accept each other, and work through hurt without turning every disagreement into a contest.
You decide what matters to you. Our conversations help you understand it and put it into practice.
Explore coaching
The podcast
A little honesty.
A lot to
think about.
Modern dating, relationships, and the things we sometimes avoid saying out loud. Join me for practical ideas, personal stories, and a closer look at the choices we make.
Your Life, Love, and Relationship Coach,
Joey Francess
Recent conversations
Explore the episodesHow Much Communication Should You Expect? Early Dating Boundaries
How soon is too soon to expect consideration from someone you’re getting to know? If you haven’t been on a date yet, do you have the right to address their communication, or are you expecting too much from a stranger?
Listen to episodeHow to Move On From Someone Who Hurt You—Even When You Still Love Them
You can know someone was wrong for you and still miss them. After betrayal, disrespect, or an abrupt ending, logic may tell you the relationship is over while part of you continues hoping they’ll return.
Listen to episodeStop Fighting Your Past: How Regret Keeps You Stuck
How much time have you spent wishing you could go back and make a different decision?
Listen to episodeThe books
Start with
knowing yourself.
Three different ways to explore who you are, what happiness means to you, and how you approach love.
Dating & relationships
The Blueprint Method
Dating with Intention
Understand your needs, boundaries, and non-negotiables before chemistry and hope start making the decisions. A practical foundation for dating with clarity and self-respect.
Happiness & personal choice
Fate Is Bullshit
A Logical Guide to Happiness
Take a closer look at happiness, accountability, and the choices you make. A direct, practical invitation to take responsibility for the life you want.
Self-awareness & reflection
The Logic of Me
A Guided Journal for Self-Discovery
Get to know the person behind your decisions. Thoughtful prompts and exercises to explore your beliefs, emotions, and the patterns shaping your life.
“If you don’t choose your standards in peace,
you’ll negotiate them in chaos.”
Joey Francess
In their words
A different perspective.
A little more clarity.
Our talk got me back into the dating world, thanks to you and your way of putting things into perspective.
Sincere and Genuine
You made me realize that I need to be more clear and unapologetic about myself and what’s important to me. I will not give my power away and embrace clear boundaries.
Provided Clarity
A conversation starts here
Let’s talk
about you.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. Tell me what’s on your mind, and we can discuss how coaching could help.
Every conversation starts with your situation, your goals, and what matters to you.